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Written by: Christina Nicolo-Couto

20 septembre 2010|

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From the way we communicate to the tools we use to do it, technology is engrained as a basic component of interpersonal interaction in Western society. It’s come to be so fast-paced that nothing is ever new for very long, and upgrading for the latest ephemeral gadgets comes as naturally to us as changing our underwear.

For almost a week now, my landline has been disconnected, thanks to workers from Bell who accidentally cut us off while doing seasonal maintenance. My initial feeling wasn’t panic though, but rather annoyance. It meant I would have to contact anyone who’d normally reach me at home to tell them to call my cell instead. But then it dawned on me - no one has ever tried to reach me on my home phone since circa 2005.

More and more, people have been ridding themselves of home phone lines altogether, especially younger generations that are starting to live on their own. In an age where practically everyone has a personal cell phone, what’s the use of a landline? Cell phone companies are encouraging the trend by offering great deals with Internet packages so that people will never have to use home phones again.

cell-phones-africa1To Westerners, this shift in the importance of cell phones simply represents another phase in our rapidly evolving technological era. But in other less developed areas of the world, cell phones are much more than a slight novelty – they are key in providing interpersonal information exchanges that have been quite simply impossible thus far. In Africa for example, they are completely revolutionizing traditional lifestyles. From having scarce communication resources to a widespread surge in cell phone usage, there now exists in Africa the fastest growing cell phone market worldwide, developing exponentially each year. Africans living in villages that don’t yet have electricity or drinkable water own cell phones.

This technology we’ve come to take for granted is now opening a whole new world of opportunity to those discovering it for the first time. Food for thought when considering just how powerful a tool the cellular phone has become.

Written by: Christina Nicolo-Couto

20 septembre 2010|

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Children and grandchildren of immigrants have probably heard these words before: “You have to stick to your own kind!” Be it for friendships, dating or marriage, older immigrant generations seem to have a very narrow view about interacting with others. Whether it’s out of fear of losing their cultural roots, language barriers or culture clash, this fear of the other remains a very ignorant way, and though it may have worked twenty or thirty years ago, it no longer works today.

Cultural differences among younger generations are no longer a big issue. Since schools these days are filled with kids from various backgrounds, youths are exposed to different ethnicities and religious beliefs from a young age. This exposure allows them to interact with and learn about different cultures, while developing interesting friendships. Everyone is friends with everyone, regardless of skin colour, ethnicity or religion.

mixed-culture-family3What’s more, cultures are blending together through coupling and marriage, and producing children of mixed backgrounds. The city of Montreal is filled with mixed individuals, from backgrounds such as Haitian-Italian to Filipino-German. I myself am a product of cultural blending, having a Portuguese father and an Italian mother. When my mom started dating my dad, she was a little apprehensive about her parents’ reactions to her non-Italian choice. In the end, my grandparents embraced my dad and realized a little Portuguese in the family wouldn’t hurt anyone.

In contrast to those old immigrant “rules”, my parents, having defied them themselves, raised my brother and I very openly. From when we were very young, we were taught to accept and respect everyone, because though we may be different, we’re all equals. Once I hit the dating age, my dad’s only rule was that I could date whomever I wanted, as long as they weren’t “douche bags”.

I know some people still have this mentality that “your own kind is the best kind” engrained, and in the end, everyone’s entitled to be with whoever makes them happy. But I say, why limit yourself to vanilla when there are so many flavours to choose from?